When we experience the loss of someone we love with our whole being, our life is drastically altered, most of us have a set perception of the world, we either subscribe to the materialist doctrine or our religious doctrine, for the materialist, its the end, for the religionist, there is hope, although CONDITIONAL.
Why I have remained contributing on this forum is because I aim to bring some motivation into a dark, and for most, negative experience = the experience of grief.
We have a choice! We either; stay in our set mind, be it materialist or religious or we EXPLORE alternative perceptions, either our loved ones have ceased to exist or they have gone to another place where we do not have access until our 'death', the former is the materialistic doctrine and the latter is the religious doctrine (depending on which religion)
I ask you, what if BOTH are wrong? Mans perceptions have been proved wrong many times throughout his sujourn here, both materialists and religious once thought the earth was flat, both, once thought the earth was at the centre of the universe, both, once thought the sun revolved around the earth, all were MIS- perceptions, all can be forgiven for presuming these concepts were true, after all, it does APPEAR that the sun rises and sets, it does APPEAR that the earth is flat when you look outwards to the horizon, our PERCEPTIONS are mis-leading us and so, dare I say, are our programmers, be they materialist or religionist, both these schools of thought reject anything that opposes their perceptions and that is why we as a species move extremely slowly in our progress. Man is STILL at war with his own kind because he is still at war within himself, collectively, we are as ignorant today as we have been for at least the last 2000 yrs.
When we looked upon the lifeless body of our loved one we assumed THEY were dead, because we identified them with their BODY, how many of you can honestly say with your hand on your heart that your loved one was nothing more than flesh, bone, sinew and protein? I bet none of you believe that and if that is the case, then you have proved to yourself that materialism is mistaken, so, where does that leave us? when a balloon is inflated with air it defies gravity and soars high, when the air is slowly released the balloon succumbs to gravity and returns to the earth, the balloon ends up nothing more than a flat lifeless piece of matter, likewise, when the life of your loved one was occupying their body it was expressing that life force, then that very life began to exit that body and the form was returned to the earth it came from, thats called entropy.
Did the air from the balloon cease to exist once it escaped its encasement? It returned to its source and became ONE with it AGAIN, why do we allow materialistic propaganda to control our minds? our loved ones never ceased to be, they returned to their Source, our bodies are made up of atoms, which return to their source = mother earth, who's form is also made up of atoms, WE are ENERGY, energizing that body while we OCCUPY it, ask any physicist and they will tell you that energy NEVER dies, its the great CYCLE of LIFE not DEATH!
So, if they have been released, they are no longer subject to matter, they are closer to you NOW than they have ever been, they are not way up in the sky out of reach, they are HERE, energy is EVERYWHERE, why are you not aware of them? because you do not RECOGNISE them, dont forget, you mistakenly identified them with their body, its that mis-conception that holds you in an illusion, certain scientists new the quantum world existed BEFORE they found it, their intuition lead them to discover it, certain thinkers KNEW the world was round BEFORE they proved it, had they ignored their intuition and listened to their religion, we would still be walking around on a flat earth.
We need to delete most of our programming in order to wake up to what is staring you all in the face = LIFE IS AN ETERNAL PROCESS, this world is just one of many chapters in the cycle.

"Our scientific power has outrun our Spiritual power, we have guided missiles but MISGUIDED men" (Martin Luther King)

"To acquire knowledge, one must study; but to acquire wisdom, one must observe."
(Marilyn Vos Savant)

"Just look at us. Everything is backwards. Everything is upside down. Doctors destroy health, Lawyers destroy justice, Universities destroy knowledge, Governments destroy freedom, the major media destroy information and religion destroys spirituality."
(Michael Ellner)

We really do need to wake up and remove the blinkers that blind us to a world we have been kept in the shadows of, a world that is rightfully your true home, a world where your loved ones absorb its UNCONDITIONAL love, a world that is crying out to be RECOGNISED

Paul